DEAR THOUGHTS, BEN AND ANYONE ELSE WHO LIKES CAPS.

Alright ya'll pull up a chair and put on your pants Mama is about to get serious. I'll keep this short because I know some people have short attention spa...glitter!!! WAIT! Stay focused Mama!


There have been a ton of IP bans around here lately and posting glitches and I'm tired of it. I know Ben had a really great idea starting this site and the best of intentions and did it all for free and I thank him for that. Enough is enough though. If the site is just going to fall to ruin, either shut it down or let someone have it who wants to run it. 


This place is like a mental hospital (and yes I can speak from experience)..we are all crazy in one way or another and we spend almost everyday ranting, raving and talking about how much we hate it here and we want to leave. But when we do leave...we turn around and come right back only to repeat the pattern. 


Guilty as charged. I'll fully admit I'm crazy..I have my flaws and my issues but show me someone on this site who doesn't. At least I can admit it and at least I don't act like my cyber shit doesn't stink. I don't need to stir the pot, pretend to be something I'm not, I don't need to defend myself or attack anyone else. And yes, as the same as everyone who writes for a public audience sometimes I like the attention. 


But most of all I like the friends I've made here...until they go missing. Now it's Cameron Redmon..if you don't know her I feel sorry for you and if you do know her, be nice to her and show her some respect...she doesn't get nearly enough. 



In closing I'm getting real tired of all this...I'm not gonna leave but I don't wanna be here if people I love and respect aren't here either. That goes for everyone of my friends who have been getting booted lately. If Thoughts was started with the idea of ONE LOVE can't we all put aside our petty bullshit, hate posts, trolling and whatever else for five fucking minutes to support one another. Because love it or hate it...we are all mad here and this is ALL of our home. 


http://thoughtscom2.uservoice.com/     PLEASE! go to that link and on the right use the CONTACT SUPPORT button and send an email to please ask for her and other bloggers that may be gone to be reinstated! Ill love you forever! I may or may not give out special favors! 


UPDATE!! Camerons Blog is back..Thank you all who helped out,sent emails and posted!! But my original statement stands. We need to start chilling out and this place needs to be fixed up. Keep the link because you might need it next! HMM.

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Comments (69)

  1. dincali

    that’s why i love you

    May 16, 2014
    1. hotmessmama

      Thank you! Feel free to repost if you like..either way I appreciate the support

      May 16, 2014
      1. dincali

        absolutely

        May 16, 2014
  2. 12SunOryx

    Wait, Cameron got banned? I thought I saw her on a couple hours ago…

    May 16, 2014
    1. hotmessmama

      Yeah, she hasn’t been able to get back into her account..I think its an IP ban..or glitch. I’m getting pissed though.

      May 16, 2014
      1. 12SunOryx

        Great. This site did have a meltdown on the server earlier today. I imagine not everything is as it should.

        May 16, 2014
        1. hotmessmama

          Well then it needs to be fixed…by someone, somewhere. Yeah I know that nobody owes us anything but if people use the site and like the site..you can’t just say “Oh well”. If you don’t want to do it, give it to someone who wants it.

          May 16, 2014
          1. 12SunOryx

            I can take over
            I do actually have enough experience with Ruby and MongoDB to know that is the setup they are using. Apparently they use Heroku though, which I am only slightly familiar with. But the rest should be a piece of cake.

            May 16, 2014
  3. JustALier

    Is there a reason everyone is getting banned, or is it a glitch? This is really annoying.

    May 16, 2014
    1. tiggers

      I am gonna ban you with my big ol Dicka hahahaha

      May 16, 2014
      1. hotmessmama

        Pfft everyone knows I have the biggest one here

        May 16, 2014
        1. tiggers

          no I think I saw a bigger one last night

          May 16, 2014
      2. JustALier

        I’ve seen bigger lol

        May 16, 2014
        1. tiggers

          it was all up in my eye last night that’s how big it was lol wait where did I go last night ? a strip club or the bar?

          May 16, 2014
          1. hotmessmama

            Thats..oh..my. Anyway..this isn’t about penis! Stay on topic..I know its hard..hehe..hard.

            May 16, 2014
        2. hotmessmama

          You haven’t seen mine

          May 16, 2014
          1. JustALier

            Girls, girls this is a serious post. Let’s stay on topic. Plus everyone knows I’ve got the biggest dick around here.

            May 16, 2014
            1. tiggers

              I am going to post you a song

              May 16, 2014
    2. hotmessmama

      It is!!! For real, if its a ban someones being a cunt..if its a glitch someone needs to stop being a cunt and fix it.

      May 16, 2014
      1. JustALier

        Yup agree 100%

        May 16, 2014
  4. Somnium

    May 16, 2014
  5. boops222

    Thereckoning was banned again too…it has to be a glitch. Someone can’t really be that big of an asshole!

    May 16, 2014
    1. hotmessmama

      Some days I wonder lady! If it isn’t a glitch I’m going to just start hexing people at random.

      May 16, 2014
      1. boops222

        I’ll help you

        May 16, 2014
        1. hotmessmama

          Awesome!! I really hope this is temporary. I can’t see her on my list or in my pms.

          May 16, 2014
  6. i_ching_chong

    no bueno, indeed

    May 16, 2014
    1. hotmessmama

      true story.

      May 16, 2014
  7. miss-ranty-pants

    SPA AND GLITTER!
    I’ll do the tech support thing and do post to my friends list, this is ridiculous! What the hell did Cameron ever do?

    May 16, 2014
    1. hotmessmama

      Thank you!!! And I contacted them too! thank you for the link! And she hasn’t done shit to anybody ever. She’s one of the sweetest people ever and I’ll start cutting..I swear!

      May 16, 2014
      1. miss-ranty-pants

        Put that razor down, you need to be in top shape for the make up sex, and if I have to mop up one more body – I swear I’ll – I’ll – I’ll – probably still love you

        May 16, 2014
        1. hotmessmama

          And I love you right ba..wait..make up sex?! What about right now sex!

          May 16, 2014
          1. miss-ranty-pants

            I tore off my country girl frock, lets lets!

            May 16, 2014
  8. wraithwriter

    like I said on another’s post. it is a free site after all. but still, it does suck when it gets this glitchy. there was a time when there used to be admins, and moderators. but that went away too.

    May 16, 2014
    1. hotmessmama

      Right and like I said, I totally get that it’s free and he did this on his own time..but if it’s your baby, you take care of it..you don’t raise it till it’s 18 and figure it’s fine on it’s own. It sucks big time. Some simple fixes could make this place so much better.

      May 16, 2014
      1. SnoopsMama

        The last “upgrade” ruined this site. It was actually perfect back in 2008, and I was okay with the upgrade after that…but this. This sucks. Which is why I rarely come here or blog anymore. It’s sad.

        May 16, 2014
        1. hotmessmama

          I don’t blame you but I do miss seeing you! It’s totally sad. People won’t admit it but shit wouldn’t be the same without this site. I wouldn’t have met some of the people I’ve met and I do love it in a way. I don’t want to see anyone not be able to come here.

          May 16, 2014
          1. SnoopsMama

            I know. I have met many of my best friends here….I do have to thank Ben for that.

            May 16, 2014
            1. hotmessmama

              May 16, 2014
      2. wraithwriter

        there are a few, maybe more of us that actually have a degree in computers, networking, database, that would gladly lend a hand and do some of this stuff for free. I wish he would let us.

        May 16, 2014
        1. hotmessmama

          Exactly!!! I know sunoryx would take it over, I’d be happy to moderate if I’m going to be here anyway…just..something.

          May 16, 2014
          1. wraithwriter

            I offered years ago, but got no reply.

            May 16, 2014
            1. hotmessmama

              Dammit this place would be awesome if you ran it. I’d bride you to delete all the people I don’t like with wine and boobs.

              May 16, 2014
  9. Kaybee

    Mental, I’m not mental?!! But I will share my straight jacket with ya gal! Ugh!

    May 16, 2014
    1. hotmessmama

      Cozy! Its not a straight jacket its a snuggle struggle sweater

      May 16, 2014
  10. GoldenPig2012

    Well, I join you in this. We’re all crazy, it’s just a matter of some label of “crazy”. I assumed, when I joined, it was for all of us: sane, crazy, bitchy, sane (ha), idiots, calm ones, whatever. It was (is?) a place where people get to share………..say it with me, class…………THOUGHTS. Some thoughts are hateful, some are gooey sweet, some are weird, some are different, but…………….we all get to share them, consider them and decide if we choose to interact with those expressing them. I THOUGHT (no pun intended) it was simple. It should be. It’s a great premise, a good thing. I miss it.

    May 16, 2014
    1. hotmessmama

      I agree.

      May 16, 2014
  11. cameronredmon

    I’m back! But you already knew that. Thanks wifey. I you

    May 16, 2014
    1. hotmessmama

      I too

      May 16, 2014
  12. wirelessguru1

    Why are all of these accounts being banned!?

    May 16, 2014
    1. wartfinder

      That"s the troll, the one who’s already saying that, just joined and has blocked me, doing it to ‘hypocrites’ – it says. Well, we all are, from time to time. Anyway, this is bitter behavior.

      May 16, 2014
      1. wirelessguru1

        So wart dude, are you telling Me that the Smith virus is actually responsible for all of this!?

        May 16, 2014
        1. wartfinder

          Try trollpig-nickname.

          May 16, 2014
          1. wirelessguru1

            ..and what is that suppose to mean!?

            May 16, 2014
            1. wartfinder

              I’ve just answered hotmessmama. Wake up!!!!!

              May 16, 2014
            2. wirelessguru1

              !?

              May 16, 2014
      2. hotmessmama

        If it is its ridiculous and they need to go back to crying in the shower and masturbating. Being banned should only be used when its necessary.

        May 16, 2014
        1. wartfinder

          I’m just putting 2 & 2 together. Check out recent post by notathoughtgiven and the troll.

          May 16, 2014
          1. wirelessguru1

            So are you saying that the Smith virus is working in cahoots with the owners of this web site!? What are you mumbling about anyway!!!???

            May 16, 2014
            1. wartfinder

              It may not be the Smith virus. Whoever it is prevents me from viewing its posts offline, yet I can see everybody else’s. I wouldn’t be surprised to be banned next. If you check notathoughtgiven’s recent posts, you will see.

              May 16, 2014
            2. wirelessguru1

              So are you saying that “notathoughtgiven” is also directly involved in this!?

              May 16, 2014
    2. hotmessmama

      Glitch or troll. Either way someone is going to get shanked one of these days. I can kill someone with lots of stuff. ..I’m not scurrred

      May 16, 2014
      1. wirelessguru1

        500 ways to die in the west…

        May 16, 2014
        1. hotmessmama

          And I live in the west!!! Perfect!!!

          May 16, 2014
          1. wirelessguru1

            It is actually “A Million Ways to Die in the West (2014)”!
            (Directed by Seth MacFarlane. With Seth MacFarlane, Charlize Theron, Liam Neeson, Amanda Seyfried.)

            May 16, 2014
  13. sipiclis

    Um, 500 or a million, your still lgoing to die one way or another!

    May 16, 2014
  14. miss-ranty-pants

    Wow now there is a lofty life goal, you must be as much fun as farts in a car at parties.

    May 16, 2014